social networks

N-bombing on Facebook

Tuesday, June 24th, 2008

If you’re not into updating your Entourage or throwing vampires, the only real thing to do on Facebook is to check out your friend’s profiles. You know… read their updates, comment on their photos, peruse their walls.

So about a year ago, I was scanning a family member’s MySpace page and came across some very disturbing language. His page was littered with the n-word – used by both his friends and he himself.

I can’t say that I know the full context of his posse’s word choice. Perhaps they use the word all the time? Perhaps it’s an inside joke? Who knows. But the thing is, I do know my family member (a cousin on my Caucasian side) – we grew up together, and had always been somewhat close. So, while I felt it would be inappropriate to write a public message on his profile decrying the language, I did think it would be entirely within my familial limits to mention my unease to his brother (who I am much closer with). Our conversation was quite illuminating… and somewhat sad. In the end, I felt it best not to bring up my concern with the cousin in question.

Admittedly, I’m listening in on someone else’s conversation by reading his or her public wall. But public walls are, for all intents and purposes, meant for all to see. In fact, in the Facebook/MySpace world, one’s wall is a living, breathing testament to one’s popularity.

Since this incident, I’ve been wondering what I’d do if the same thing ever occurred with a close friend or family member whose life I am an integral part of – a sister, a brother, a best friend, etc. Is it enough to remind said person that you love them dearly? Does this type of situation warrant a more in-depth discussion (of course, not out of anger, but out of love)? Or is “letting it go” the best approach?

This piece was originally posted on Ryan’s blog Cheap Thrills.

The weekend roundup: the end is near

Monday, June 2nd, 2008

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“It’s Barack Obama’s party now.”

So led the AP yesterday.  It’s been a challenge to sort through this mess.  Everyone tip-toeing around the slim prospect of Hillary somehow, someway stealing what Obama wrapped up mathematically at least a month ago.  Even though he has been reluctant to say anything definitive, his actions have spoken louder than his words, with his campaign’s eye focused squarely on John McCain.  He has officially severed all ties with his Trinity UCC church that has plagued him since Super Tuesday.  And he is set to speak at a rally in St. Paul, ostensibly to announce his victory in the primaries…in the same spot where the Republican National Convention will be held in August.  Ballsy!

Recent buzz says that Hillary is coming to terms with the loss after the DNC’s decision to seat the Florida and Michigan delegates at half strength.  That she will abandon any and all last ditch efforts to convince the superdelegates that she has a better shot at beating McCain in November.  It’s expected that the 200 or so uncommitted superdelegates remaining will rally behind Obama once the last two primaries are over on Tuesday.

It’s been tough even now to decipher what is filtering through the press from Hillary and from her delegate guru Harold Ickes.  Reports are that Hillary herself has said the race could be over this week. Ickes has said that she is reserving her right to appeal the Rules Committee decision and take the fight all the way to the convention, but he has also been quoted saying that Obama would make a great president and that whoever the nominee is, the other will rally behind that person unequivocally.

And then this email from Hillary’s campaign comes over:

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The weekend roundup

Monday, May 19th, 2008

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Here at P+P, we are constantly re-thinking the best ways to organize content and deliver a reading experience outside the punditry and beltway-blogger echo chamber. As such, we’d like to offer up a new permanent Monday fixture that will throw out some hand-picked stories from the weekend for your reading pleasure, along with some brief news analysis for that tangy P+P twinge. Enjoy!

My wife recently endured the pharmaceutical gauntlet with a failed Yaz experiment and a system-ravaging run with the mega-antibiotic Cipro, so this skewering of Big Pharma that got a ton of run on Digg struck particularly close to home. Like any debate worth having, it’s complex and too easy to generalize. Sure, many people out there take many drugs that save their lives or keep them stable without any severe side effects. It’s no secret, however, that Big Pharma is rivaled only by oil, tobacco, and Israel when it comes to lobby power in Washington. No other country in the world markets drugs the way we do in the US. One has to step back and wonder, as noted in the blog entry linked above, how is it legal to market anti-depressants wide instead of administering only under strict psychiatric recommendation? Doesn’t that constitute baiting people who just may be having a bad week? When money changes hands between doctors, HMOs, and pharmaceutical companies, aren’t the best interests of the patient lost somewhere in the capitalist shuffle?

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As I was reading the LA Times’ news analysis piece of Bush’s Middle East tour, a quote from Bush directed at Arab nations struck me as pretty preposterous, even by his standards:

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Mourning on the social-networks

Monday, February 18th, 2008

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After the Virginia Tech shootings in 2007, many members of social networking sites changed their profile pictures to a VT ribbon, in honor of the victims of the shooting. The ribbon often appeared in either black or maroon, symbolizing either mourning for the dead or support for the VT community. When the shootings at Northern Illinois University took place last week, NIU memorial ribbons similarly became widespread on Facebook and MySpace. Being a “Huskie,” the school’s mascot, was not only a meaningful label for NIU students, faculty and staff, but suddenly also for the extended community that radiated out from NIU memorial groups and the friends and families of the victims.

niu2.jpgThe shared visual language of these two tragedies, signals more generally how we are approaching mourning online. The images of the ribbon and the mascot are quickly and easily reproducible in a digital environment, creating what could be considered a “brand” of mourning. In an environment where copying and pasting is a regular act of creation, survivor guilt becomes easier to address. Being public about one’s guilt or mourning has always been an important part of moving forward after a loss. The cross-cultural ancient rituals surrounding death— dressing and viewing the deceased, the celebration of life, the placing of markers at gravesites— are ways for mourners to participate publicly in moving forward. The act of memorialization is the first step in a form of forgetting, each distinct practice of mourning being a stylization of a culture’s particular needs. In these cases, joining in the online visual culture of mourning appears to play an important role in dealing with survivor guilt, giving internet users a simple way to express their grief. Many of the Facebook and MySpace users changing their profile pictures this week, for example, are not members of the immediate NIU community.

Using corporate language and branding tactics nonetheless may be less than ideal, as it expresses noncommercial mourning and guilt in a readymade language of commodity advertisement. The juxtaposition is at once disconcerting and entirely natural. In the case of the school shootings, the corporate university brands are more than familiar; they are the iconic images of a carefully wrought visual culture of power, strength and courage. On a very basic level, they convey what needs conveying and so they rose to the top of the great mix of our ever-expanding digital raw material.

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What is particularly interesting about the Facebook and MySpace community’s response to the NIU Shootings is the rapid production of these spaces and user-created media about the shootings. The Facebook group “Pray for Northern Illinois University Students and Families” was created a mere hour and a half after the shootings occurred and membership rose exponentially, to 103,358 members a mere two days after its inception. Similarly, countless digital memorials to 9/11 have been created even while the process of creating the physical memorial continues. Both groups feature media made by mourners, a digital equivalent of the items left at roadside memorials and spontaneous shrine sites. Media offerings include documentation of the spontaneous shrines at NIU, of the six crosses representing the shooter and his victims, and user-created images of solidarity and support. Most of these images are composed of the NIU memorial ribbon and another university’s logo and the words “Today, we are all Huskies.” Collective folk responses such as these have been common at sites of mass tragedy; for example, teddy bears were a popular theme at the Oklahoma City National Memorial, and dog tags were often left at the Vietnam Veterans memorial.

Activism also plays into online memorials, perhaps more intensely than it does for physical memorials. Nearly all of the Facebook and MySpace memorials address the Westboro Baptist Church’s announcement that “God sent the Shooter…WBC will picket their hypocritical funerals & memorials & “vigils.”” WBC pickets many vigils, memorials, funerals and public gatherings in response to mass tragedy and loss such as the funerals of soldiers, hate crime victim Matthew Shepard and other school shootings because the church sees these events as God’s “Wrath & Vengeance Against an Ungrateful Nation that has Forsaken Him & Embraced Filthy Fags.” In response, there was a call from members connected to the Facebook and MySpace memorials to set up a counter-protest and later promote when and where the counter-protests would take place:

One user, Marion Dzwonnik, composed a YouTube Video threat in response to WBC’s plans:

Another, Rich Peters III, “J.R.”, made a vlog questioning the WBC congregation on how it would act if a shooter opened fire on one of its services:

In general, the amount of user-created media and responses to the NIU shootings is already astounding, and we probably won’t see this response fade very quickly. Other tragedies, such as the Virginia Tech Shootings, Hurricane Katrina and 9/11, are still generating new-media creation. And while I’ve only taken a look at responses on two social networking sites, the landscape of online mourning extends to video- and image-sharing sites, virtual worlds and practically any other online community space.

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Sara Hebert is a graduate student in the Digital Media Studies program at the University of Denver.

Fear and loathing on Facebook

Wednesday, November 28th, 2007

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Facebook continues its campaign for global media domination, announcing a partnership with ABC News designed to bring the campaign trail to the top of the news feed.

The goal, as the New York Times reported Monday, is to draw Facebook users (read: 18-29 year olds) into political coverage, creating a web of information and opinion for audiences younger and more tech savvy than those still watching the nightly news (!) (read: AARP members).

ABC News President David Westin, whose Facebook account is viewable only to “friends,” told the Times that the partnership hopes to tap the constant buzzing discourse of the online community. “There are debates going on at all times within Facebook. This allows us to participate in those debates, both by providing information and by learning from the users.”

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